Monday, March 29, 2010

Road trip to Nebraska!

Nebraska!

As many of you know, my husband is in the process of applying to law school. He’s been accepted to a few and we are still waiting to hear back from BYU and Utah. University of Nebraska had an Accepted Students Day this past Friday. Last minute we decided what the heck, packed our bags and left. The night before we left I got another infected milk duct and it took down my body. I had to take another day off of work and try and get better. Last December I had the same issue and it developed into Mastitis. After a call to the doctor, they issued me a round of antibiotics. By Thursday night I it least felt like I could function again and we set out on our 13 hour journey. We decided to drive through the night, and it was a great idea! Akoy did great! Not once this whole trip did we have to arrange something special for him. He was great. We just did what ever we needed to do. He sleeps great in the car. We had to stop 3 times for gas and we would get Akoy out to stretch then put him back in the car. We arrived in Lincoln around 9:17a.m. (just as our GPS told us when we left) We checked into our hotel, took quick showers and headed to the UNL campus. Poor Bryson, he was going off of an hour and a half sleep. That was all I could drive. I was still feeling sick. They had their little spill on why you should choose UNL.
*Here is a picture of Akoy on the way there and back


While he was there I decided to go check out town and the district building. I was curious to see what their teaching job market is like. University of Nebraska has a really neat policy that lets spouses work in their “special area” and in return we would get residency tuition! I rather not work, but heck, if it gives us more money and saves us 10 grand a year, I’ll work for a little bit. I didn’t get really far because it was their spring break, but I did get some questions answered.
Bryson and I met back up and a member from the church showed us some options for housing and got us pretty pumped. One thing I really liked, is that they have two campus’s. One is the main campus and the other is east campus. The law school and a lot of the other graduate departments are found on east campus. Before I realized this I was going crazy trying to find the law building on main campus and thinking I didn’t remember any other this… needless to say a lot of anxiety. East campus was much better. It was nice to have the church and the fact that we can go anywhere and someone would be there to help us.

After we looked at housing, we took a couple hour much needed nap and then went to dinner at Olive Garden. For the first time we let Akoy have a bread stick, and boy did he go to town. He loved it! Basically, he is just eating anything soft off of our plates. We then explored Lincoln a little more and then hit the sack.

Saturday we slept in a little bit and went to the Nebraska Bookstore. We wanted something to remember our little trip in case we didn’t end up going there. We probably got carried away but heck, oh well! We have the money now, and probably won’t have extra spending money while in school. We each ended up getting a shirt and a hat. We saw a few various places that day including the State Capital, the Football stadium. They have won 5 national championships. Their stadium is HUGE and they sell out every game. I think it holds around 80,000 people.






Omaha is an hour away, so we decided to go see the Winter Quarters Temple and Creighton University. Bryson also got accepted to this school. It is a little more pricey though. We drove past the campus and stopped for a second, didn’t get the same feeling. Then drove away. Our GPS took us a very weird way to the temple. At one point it took us up a huge dirt hill while saying “Drive .3 miles to reach your destination” I thought for sure we typed in the wrong address, but to no avail, the temple was at the top of the hill. Just a weird way to take I guess! Gave us a good laugh. Below is a picture of the hill we went up.


After Omaha, we headed home. Another quick story, on the way to Nebraska, my ugg slipper fell out of the car at a gas station. I realized this later and tried calling the places. We didn’t have one receipt however. The first gas station I called didn’t have it. We tried looking up our transactions but they weren’t posted yet. I called American Express but all they could give me was it was a “Shell” gas station. We had many plans on how to find it, but they would all take a lot of work. Needless to say after a lot of planning and thinking I finally remembered that from this gas station we had 40 miles until a turn off. Bryson made sure I knew of this turn off before he headed to sleep. After remembering this information, we waited for the turn off and then clocked in 40 miles. Got off at the exit and drove to the gas station. The lady knew exactly what I was talking about and gave me my slipper! I was sooo excited. I might leave the tire mark, just to give me a good laugh when needed.

We made it home Sunday Morning, got Akoy ready for church and sent him with his grandparents so we could get a nap in. All in all the trip was quick but worth it. We had fun as a couple and we were so glad we took the baby. We really liked Nebraska and would be happy to move out there. Secretly I’m hoping BYU and Utah rejects Bryson, so then that way the decision in made for us. We still might go out there even if he does get accepted. It would be a little bit more money in the long run, but I would enjoy those years with just my little family. It would be so good for our marriage and bring us closer together.
Whether or not we go to UNL, it was a fun weekend together! I haven’t seen Akoy so happy before, I think it was mainly he got both parents to himself for a few days.


We will keep you updated when we make a decision!

Tuesday, March 23, 2010

Enjoying the weather!

We have been loving this weather! (not today, there is snow on the ground). We can actually go outside with out a blanket! We have already gone on 3 walks in the past week! So much fun!

Last Friday, I came home to my buddy in this swing! So cute. My mom said he was just hanging out while she did yard work. Such a happy little boy!


Then we came inside to play with this fluffy little boy!


Hilary, my best friend growing up (3 days apart) had her homecoming. It was nice to see her again! After going to her house, my family decided to go on a walk. No joke, Akoy fell asleep. It was quite funny to watch. Later that night, we went on another walk with Bryson's family.






As I was shopping last week, I found the cutest walker for Akoy, unfortunately when I went back yesterday, they only had pink :( So we bought the one just up from it in price. I think I will actually like this one more because it has lots of buttons for him to play with. The best part is, I had a 20% off coupon, a twenty dollar gift card from buying 2 boxes of diapers (that I needed) and a 50 dollar Mastercard from test driving a Ford during the Car show! (which I didn't even test drive, they just signed it off) So this baby only cost us 30 bucks! not bad! Thank you coupons and gift cards!

Here he is in his new wheels




Then he saw a bug on the ground, he just stopped and watched it for a good 30 seconds before he ran over it. Luckily he doesn't know what happened to it. He is definitely all boy!

Monday, March 15, 2010

7 months

This past week Akoy turned 7 Months. Its crazy how time goes by and how big he is getting. It seems he is learning something new everyday. We have so much fun playing with him. He has quite the personality and is forming an attitude.
Here are some traits from 7 months

*Can sit up from crawling position
*Crawls around- (can crawl but prefers to do a push up and lung forward)
*Loves his soccor ball! He lights up when he see it. Rolls around with it and eats it.
*Knows his mommy and daddy very well
*Loves his Uncle Bryson and Bronson
*Loves both Grandma’s
* Had his 2nd ear infection
* Finally nurses well! The past couple months he’s done an okay job, but he can finally go all day with out a bottle. Didn’t realize how much I would like that.
* Crys to sleep some nights. He pushes down the bumper and just stares at the door and waits for us to come back. It’s so sad.
*Doesn’t really like baby food but loves any other food! He’s a crazy boy! (will open mouth for anything but baby food)
* LOVES scribbler popsicles. He gets mad if we don’t share.
*Says “da” a lot- Bryson was trying to make him go back to sleep one morning (it was time to be awake, Bryson just wanted more time ☺ ) and Akoy replied in a stern voice “Da Da Da Da” like he was getting mad at Bryson.
* Has about one nap a day
* Goes to sleep around 9:30 and sleeps till 8ish. Usually wakes up twice to eat. We have had a few really rough nights with hardly any sleep. This ear infection really got him. The last couple of nights he’s only woken up once and that was at 6 or 7. I’m okay with that! ☺
* He has my mom twirled around his finger. He’s a pill to nap sometimes and she doesn’t like him to cry, so she will actually get in the crib with him and he will fall asleep!
*Yesterday we tried to have him drink out of a Juicy Juice and after two times of pushing it in his mouth, he would suck and drink it! He loved it! (Apple Juice out of a bottle on the other hands.. nope) I think he just expects the bottle for milk.
*Yesterday he ate a bunch of mashed potatoes just fine. When I tried bananas, wouldn’t even open his mouth! Again with the no baby food! Silly guy.


We love this boy so much and I can’t say it enough. He adds so much personality to our family. I love watching him learn new things everyday.


Here are some pictures. When I upload pictures, it doesn't actually show me the picture, just a bunch of nonsense(to me at least) but when I post it shows the picture. It makes it hard for me to order the pictures and label them. Any know how to fix that? It is driving me crazy!

*In a couple of the pictures there is this tie, it is adorable! It was at my sisters salon and I couldn't resist!

*In the Gap sweater, he was eating ice. It's funny to watch his reactions. He loves it though.

*We went to Gateway for my mother in laws b-day, that is where the family pics are from.








Sunday, March 14, 2010

Idaho

We headed up to Idaho Friday Morning. We had packed everything the night before and just slept until Akoy woke up. Akoy did great on the way up. He slept most of the time and then I hopped in the back seat and we played. Didn't even have to stop! One the way home we stopped so I could feed him and at a gas station to get gas. In which I found some adorable decorations for his room.. at a gas station! ha. :)
It was nice to see family that I hadn't seen in awhile. My Uncle said something that I totally agree with. It's about a funeral. "I've always enjoyed funerals. You see tons of people you haven't seen in a long time, they are usually on their best behavior, the food is awesome and it's just great. Except for that one thing" It is so true.

My grandpas funeral was really good. All the great grandkids sang a song and all the grandkids also sang a song. He has 60 grandkids and 66 great grandkids. My dad was the speaker and that made it really hard. I have never seen my dad have such a hard time talking. I was bawling the whole time. He reminds me so much of my grandpa. As we walked out of the church, two airforce planes flew over. He served in World War 2. It was cool, no one expected that. We had a police escort to Ashton (25 min away) and then their was a firing squad at the grave side that did a solute thing. The folded the flag that was on his casket and gave it to my grandma.

The rest of the time we just spent with the family. One night we just played "words with friends on the iphone. It was pretty fun. We stayed at a Marriot my brother got us it for a good deal. That was nice to have for Akoy. It made things easier. Sunday we left. Bryson's parents were nice enough to make the trip up to Rexburg and back in one day. It was very nice of them to be there for us. Here are some pictures from the trip.









Wednesday, March 3, 2010

James Howard Murdoch

James Howard Murdoch
March 8, 1922- March 3, 2010

My grandpa has been battling Colon Cancer for the past few years.

Last Friday, after being on the floor unconscious, the doctor told us a week maybe two.

My dad (this is his dad) quickly made the trip up to Rexburg to be with him.

His death was expected but still hard to comprehend

Death is an interesting thing. I know it is the best for my grandpa, and I knew it was coming.

Yet, when my mom called me this morning as I was heading out for work, it still hit me.

My grandma woke up at 3:30 and he had already passed, he passed in his sleep, hopefully a painless death. I hope to go the same way.

I know he is in a better place, but yet death is still a hard thing to deal with.

I hate writing, but yet as I type things out, it helps me cope with things and I kind of start to like writing.

Sorry if this is so scattered, but for some reason typing things helps me sort through everything. My poor students aren't going to get the best lessons from me today. Luckily they are all old enough to understand. They'll survive. Today is not the most crucial day (Lehi students going to Lehi Jr. High- the rest is a read a thon)

When I think of my grandpa, I think of words like, kind, tender, loving, a man of power, wisdom, virtue and many more. He is an amazing guy. I am so glad that I see many of his traits in my own dad. He has taught my dad to be the amazing guy he is today.

He was a perfect example. hands down. I don't think he had a mean bone in his body.

He loves his garden. I always loved going to his house to eating fresh food from the garden. This is one of the many traits he taught my dad who is now teaching my husband. I hope to have a garden like his one day.

It was so hard to see him start to weaken. Everytime I would go up there, he got a little worse.

One day he exclaimed with excitement to my brother in law (with tears in his eyes) that today was a special day because the blacks got the priesthood. My brother in law kindly stated that he remembered that happening when he was in High School. My grandpa put that aside and went back to his excitement. He was so happy!

Unfortunatley with old age your memory goes with it.

This morning, after my little brother was told about his passing, Bryson (my bro) said, it least his mind was clear and he could think again.

He is whole again, nothing bothering him, his nasty cough is gone, no more oxygen, no more meds, his body is perfect.

As I was talking to my mom this morning on my way to work. I know he is rejoicing to be finally with his father in heaven. My grandpas parents got to greet him and have their son back. He went home to two sets of great parents. So much joy is on the other side of the veil right now. Talking about how Grandpa got to go to the other side and reach his judgment. I can't help to picture Heavenly Father telling my grandpa, "Howard, job well done, welcome home!"

He did do a good job, he lived a great life, he was a great man

Luckily my 8 yr old nephew gets to carry on his name "James Howard Murdoch" I hope one day he realizes how special that name is. He is lucky!

Grandpa Murdoch, you will be missed! I love you and can't wait to see you one day! I am so grateful for the plan of salvation. I KNOW with all my heart that I WILL see his someday.